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  Family Based Alternatives Project

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Children's needs are best met in a family. But family circumstances coupled with the particular needs of a child with a disability can sometimes mean a family struggles and needs extra support. Sometimes circumstances lead families to seek out-of-home placement for their child with disabilities. Family-based alternatives is a term used to identify ways of organizing support to offer families options other than residential facility care.

What are family-based alternatives?

Family-based alternatives are living arrangements which have as their primary feature a nurturing, enduring, parental relationship. They come in many forms. The major variations are:

  •  Support for a child to live with their birth family
  •  Support for a child placed in residential care to return home
  •  Support for another family to care for a child, either full or part time

Until recently, there have been few alternatives to residential care in Texas when families struggle to care for their children with disabilities. The service system is changing to make more alternatives available. To have more family-based alternatives to facility care means the service system needs to:

  1. Create sufficient support for birth families to enable them to care for their children at home, and
  2. Find alternate families who can care for children who are unable to live with their birth families.

EveryChild is contributing to change in both of these areas. Members of the EveryChild Coalition have worked in the first area to increase the range and availability of supports to help birth families. EveryChild staff are currently working in the second area through the Family-Based Alternatives Project to increase the availability of alternate families.

The first priority for any child is to find adequate supports to enable a child to remain home or to return home from a residential placement. If living with the birth family is not possible, the second priority is to find another family arrangement to care for a child. Sometimes that will mean extended kin to provide a home for a child or to help birth parents care for a child. Sometimes that will mean finding an unrelated family who can provide a loving, safe, and nurturing home for a child.


SUPPORT TO REMAIN HOME

While the number and range of options to help birth families is growing, it is not yet adequate to assist all families who need it. Some of the programs and services that can help are described in the Resources section. Meanwhile, child advocacy groups continue to work for change to improve supports to birth families.


SUPPORT TO RETURN HOME

For children who currently live in facilities targeted by the Family-Based Alternatives Project, EveryChild staff are available to assist families who wish to bring their children home. The Project is funded through a contact with the Texas Health and Human Services Commission. With current available funding, activities at this time are limited to children with developmental disabilities residing in facilities in a twelve county area in central Texas. As we seek and obtain additional funding, we may be able to expand our activities to include other children in need of a family home.


SUPPORT FOR ANOTHER FAMILY TO PROVIDE CARE

When a birth family finds that they are unable to care for their child, whether due to circumstances or inadequate support, an alternative can be another family with different circumstances or supports who can provide a home for a child, on either a full time or part time basis.


When children are unable to live with their birth families, EveryChild is promoting the development of a “Support Family” model. A Support Family enables a child to enjoy the benefits of family life when their birth family is unable to provide it or unable to provide it full-time. A Support Family is a family who is recruited especially to care for a child and to function like extended kin or a blended family for families whose own kinship circle is unable to provide a full-time home for a child. Children can be placed with a Support Family and yet remain an integral part of their birth family's life.

A Support Family is a different way to arrange caregiving that offers the reliability of a paid caregiver and the lifestyle of a family when birth parents are unable to care for a child. A Support Family is a family who has been recruited, carefully selected, fully prepared, and paid to provide care for a child with a disability.

Using a Support Family to Provide Full Time Care

Support Families are distinguished from traditional foster care by several unique features:

What is a Support Family?

  • Support Families are recruited specifically for children with disabilities.

  • Support Families are asked to make a long-term commitment to a specific child.

  • Birth families can voluntarily choose to use a Support Family without giving up their rights.

  • Support Families receive training and preparation specifically for the child who will be placed with them.

  • Support Families are carefully matched with children and their birth families so that the families can work collaboratively for the child.

  • Adequate time is taken to prepare the Support Family to ensure the child's well-being and to assure the likelihood of a long-term arrangement.

When using a Support Family, the birth family can remain a central part of the child's life even while the child lives with another family. Birth families participate in planning and decision-making, including the selection of the Support Family, and are encouraged to maintain regular involvement with their child.

When circumstances have led to the intervention of a court to assume guardianship to protect a child, the Support Family will work with the guardian to provide a stable, nurturing family for a child for as long as necessary. Sometimes this will be temporary, sometimes it will be long-term, and sometimes it can lead to adoption.

Using a Support Family to Share Care

An option that can work for some families is an arrangement called shared parenting. Shared parenting is a term used to describe an arrangement where an alternate family is recruited and trained to provide a home part-time to help a birth family in caring for their child with disabilities.

Shared parenting is similar to arrangements that occur naturally, for example, when extended kin care for a child part-time or when care is shared between two households when parents divorce. When families with children with disabilities find that their own network of extended family and friends is not sufficient to help, a shared parenting arrangement can fill a similar role.

Shared parenting arrangements are distinguished by the following features:

What is shared parenting?

  • Support Families are specifically recruited to share in caring for children with disabilities.

  • Support Families are paid caregivers who provide care in a family home.

  • A birth family chooses a recruited Support Family to provide a part-time home for a child on a regular basis scheduled when the birth family needs and wants that kind of help.

  • The amount of time and conditions under which care is shared between two families can vary with families' circumstances and preferences.

  • Support Families who provide shared parenting are carefully screened, certified, and monitored by a community agency who is responsible for assuring the child's well-being through supervision and support.

  • Shared parenting arrangements include negotiated agreements between a birth family and a Support Family outlining the arrangements and describing their mutual decisions about how to share care.

Shared parenting can be an innovative way to provide practical assistance to a birth family while enabling a child to continue to enjoy the benefits of family life.


Developing Support Family Options

Family-based alternatives to institutional care have been used successfully in other states to support family life for children with disabilities. Much work has yet to be done to make family-based alternatives a readily available option in Texas. One step in that direction is the Family-Based Alternatives Project, which is funded through a contract with the Texas Health and Human Services Commission.

Through this Project, EveryChild is actively engaged in expanding the availability of Support Families to provide full-time or shared parenting living arrangements for children with disabilities who currently reside in residential facilties in central Texas. Project activities include:

  • Collaborating with birth families to explore possible alternatives to facility care for a child with a disability
  • Recruiting and preparing alternate families to provide a home for children who can't live with their birth families or who can't live with their birth families full-time
  • Linking together people, supports and community agencies as partners in helping families and children thrive
  • Collaborating with state government and state agencies to remove systemic barriers and promote family life for children with disabilities
For more information about Support Families see Becoming a Support Family. For more information about how this model is being implemented in Texas see the Family-Based Alternatives Project.

By creating a system of family-based alternatives,
families will have options when faced with the possibility
of out-of-home placement for their child.